What To Do After Sex So She Sleeps With You Again (AKA The Easiest Way to Get More Repeat Hookups & Sex)…
When it comes to sex, there are a lot of articles out there about it.
And for good cause–after all, there are a lot of things about sex to consider:
The best positions to use for maximum pleasure…
What to do if you want to spice things up…
How to explore a woman's secret sexual fantasies…
And the list goes on.
But what most people don't talk about, and what most articles won't tell you–is what you can do after sex to make the experience as good as possible.
As a result, sometimes, the first few minutes after sex–or however long you spend time with this woman afterward–can feel kind of awkward.
Do you cuddle? If so, for how long?
And do you just go back to whatever you were doing before, like nothing happened?
So today, we're breaking all of that down for you.
Because the truth is, there are some simple things you can do after sex that will make your odds of sleeping with her again a lot better.
Beyond Orgasms: The Bizarre Reason Why What You Do AFTER Sex Can Give Her So Much Pleasure…
After sex, most women are going to feel extremely vulnerable.
And this means that she's going to be hyper-aware of what you do–she will notice, and she will remember it.
For most women, it's important to feel comfortable and acknowledged in the few minutes following the experience.
That way, she feels appreciated and safe with you–and that's going to make her want to spend more time with you (and have more sex too).
On the flipside, if you make her feel ignored or unseen after you're done, then that's probably not going to make her feel very good.
This may make her feel used, or as though she's just one of several women you sleep with, so it's “no big deal.”
Even if sex with her truly isn't a big deal–it's usually good to pay her a little attention, just so both of you are happy and on the same page afterward.
Of course, different women like different things.
Some women might want to be cuddled and watch Netflix with you afterward…
Other girls might be cool with a high-five before you both roll over and pass out.
So how do you know what works best?
I'll show you below:
8 Underrated Ways to Make Her Want to Sleep With You Again ASAP…
You know the phrase, “the little things make the biggest difference”?
Well after sex, this is especially true for most women.
So here are 8 basic things you can do that will make the post-sex experience a lot more pleasurable for both of you–and will make her way more likely to sleep with you again:
1) Be stealthy about how you get rid of the condom.
Sure, you could just rip the condom off, dangle it and toss it in the trash as soon as the deed is done–but it's not the most sanitary method of disposal.
A better thing to do would be to turn away from her, discreetly slide the condom off, tie it up and place it in a trashcan nearby.
That way, neither of you has to worry about any fluids escaping.
2) Get her a glass of water or a snack.
Even though sex might not be the most difficult workout of your life, there's no denying it's certainly physical activity.
It's a nice gesture to ask her if she wants some water, or another beverage–and it probably wouldn't hurt to offer her a snack either.
3) Clean yourselves up.
Hey, we're all adults here, and sex can get messy.
Chances are, you're both going to have some moisture on your bodies, and there may be a wet spot on the bed.
Get her a paper towel or a cloth to clean up with, and put a towel over any moisture on the bed. This will make the experience as pleasurable (and sanitary) as possible.
4) Use the restroom.
It's good to urinate both before and after sex–it prevents the risk of UTIs.
You could also wash yourself *down there* if you want, but it's not totally necessary.
5) Keep your toys clean.
If you use a small vibrator or any other toys, make sure to wash and sanitize them when you're done.
This is just basic hygiene.
6) Talk to her.
You don't have to have a heart-to-heart with her, or tell her your deepest, darkest secrets… but it doesn't hurt to talk a little bit once the sex is over.
It can be as simple as saying, “That wore me out, how about you?”
Just check in with her to make sure she's comfortable and OK.
A lot of girls like to cuddle after sex–not for very long, either.
A recent study has shown that you only need to cuddle for 6-10 minutes in order for the “feel good” chemicals to kick in.
8) Or don't cuddle.
And there are some women out there who would rather not have any physical contact after sex.
So if you don't want to, and neither does she, cuddling isn't necessary to make sure she sleeps with you again.
However, there is one “small habit” I didn't mention–and it works better than anything else to get a hot girl to sleep with you again.
It's not about what you do after sex, though… it's about what you do during it:
The “Obvious” Way to Get Her to Sleep With You Again…
Can be summed up in one word:
Because for a woman, orgasms are as addictive as sugar, or your favorite snack.
Think about it:
Have you ever opened a brand-new box of your favorite cookies or crackers, and tried to have just one? It’s pretty hard, right?
And even if you tell yourself you’re only going to have a couple… and you put the box away, and insist you won’t have anymore…
… the more you think about it, the more you want it… until you just *have* to have it, right?
Well for women, orgasms are like that.
So the more orgasms you can give a girl during sex… and the more powerful each of them is… the more she’s going to get “addicted” to you, and come back to you for more.
Luckily, you don’t need to have “infinite stamina” or a “giant dong” to give a girl multiple, bed-shaking orgasms…
Here are 3 simple, easy-to-repeat techniques that will give the next girl you sleep with so many orgasms she won’t want to hop off your d**k:
[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on September 16, 2019.]